A Few Things You Should Know Before Attending A Private Medium
Reading or a Group Medium Gallery/Platform Demonstration
If you've never been to a Medium or Medium Gallery before, you may be excited,
confused, even skeptical about the process, what to expect, what to do or not to do!
Because EVERYONE wants the BEST from a visit, I'd like to share this information
that will assist YOU in having the BEST experience possible!
What do Mediums Do?
Mediums Communicate with the Spirit World
The first thing you should know before going to a public Medium demonstration (sometimes called a “Gallery” or "Platform")
or private reading is that Mediums are like a telephone to the spirit world and they communicate with Spiritual Energy.
However, they are like a telephone without a dial. A Medium cannot simply call up anyone from the spirit world to talk.
Instead, you get whoever is on the other end when the Medium “links-in” with the spirit world. If you come with the expectation,
desire or hope to contact a SPECIFIC person in Spirit, you may be disappointed and MISS the joy and blessing of special
message that IS being given to you when you are read. PLEASE…keep an open mind and an open heart!
Spirits Communicate with Mediums using different methods
Some Mediums see Spirit. Not every Spirit chooses to show him or herself to a Medium who has this ability, but many of them
do. If the Medium can see spirits, part of the communication will be based on sight. A Medium may see something in their
mind’s eye (as an inner vision), or they may see spirits the way they see other people (as a physical manifestation,
except the spirits are more ethereal, ghostly).
Some Mediums can hear Spirits. In this method, the Spirit actually communicates verbally. The Medium may hear the
communication in their mind (like hearing thoughts), or they may hear the spirit the way they would hear you or I talking to them.
Unfortunately, some spirits are not the greatest communicators and what the Medium actually hears may sound more like a faint
radio station than a clear telephone signal. This is one reason why some readings are so detailed and accurate, while others are
sketchy. Just try talking to someone using a cheap set of walkie-talkies and you’ll experience what it’s like chatting with a weak
communicator from the Spirit world!
Some Mediums get feelings or sensations in their body and mind, both physical and emotional. A Spirit can make the Medium
feel sad if they are trying to convey the message of depression. Or they can make the psychic medium’s lungs feel tight if they
are trying to convey the message that someone had pneumonia or lung cancer. It is not uncommon that a Medium will feel a
painful sensation in the head if the Spirit is trying to relay the message that there was a head trauma that caused death.
This could be due to an accident or any number of causes, so the spirit will also send another message—perhaps a telepathic
picture of a smashed car—to complete the story for the Medium.
Everyone who attends a session effects the clarity of the messages that come through
Keep in mind that the person being read (who is called the Sitter), and anyone in the room (people attending the reading with
the sitter or audience members in a demonstration), can affect the clarity of the messages.
In a reading, for instance, if you are skeptical, the messages might not be quite as clear as they could be if you were more
open-minded. If you are fearful or angry, this low mental energy could inhibit the clarity of the messages. If you are on medication
or abusing drugs or alcohol, your mental and emotional clarity could also affect the clarity of the messages.
Likewise, an entire audience can affect the clarity of the Spirit communication at a Medium demonstration. If the audience as
a whole is very open, accepting and light-hearted, this helps the Medium, as it would help any speaker on stage. If the audience
as a whole is skeptical, apathetic or angry, this can negatively affect the Medium, as it might affect any speaker in front of such
a group. Spirit communication is about energy. If the energy in the room is low, it makes it more difficult for the Medium to raise
her own energy to connect with spirit. If the energy is high, it can assist the Medium to raise her energy!
We can all help Mediums to have a clear path while on stage, or in a private reading, by sending them our love and acceptance.
Say a little prayer to help the Medium receive perfect clarity in their communication. Don’t sit there with your arms folded and an
angry look on your face! Lighten up! Relax! Have fun! One message that often comes through for people from Spirit-Guides is that
they need to lighten up—don’t be so serious! Many spirits have communicated to Mediums that when they crossed-over to the
Spirit world and looked back at their life, they were regretful that they were so darn serious and didn’t have more fun while they
The Medium PREFERS you answer Yes, No or Maybe...
During a reading—whether a 3-minute reading in a group setting or a one-hour private reading—all you need to do is answer is “Yes”, “No”, “I cannot
take/understand that” or “I am not sure”. You don’t need to do much talking during a reading. Let the Medium do the talking.
You are there to listen.
If what the Medium says doesn’t make sense to you, just say you don’t know or don’t understand.
Don’t try to make it fit! If the Medium asks if you had a dog named Fred, don’t say, “I had a cat named Ethel!”
Don’t try to make the message fit if it doesn’t. The Medium will figure out what the message means without you interpreting
ALSO...if the Medium says that “Frances” is here, and your mother’s name is Francine, don’t say you have no idea what
they are talking about. Or if the Medium says that your father is wearing a police uniform but your father wore a security uniform,
remember that you don’t have to be a Medium to mix details like that! Anyone could make that mistake! Small inaccuracies are
expected. Don’t hold the Medium to exact measurements!
Don’t feed the Medium!
If the Medium tells you that your Uncle Joe is present. Don’t blurt out, “Oh, my goodness, my Uncle Joe was a police officer who
lost his leg in the war and died two years ago in a car accident!” Let the Medium tell you these things. If you offer that
information yourself, then you miss out on the excitement and validation you could gain if the Medium was about to tell you
those details! The Medium’s JOB is to validate your loved one’s presence by giving details to you!
Don’t feel the need to do the Medium’s job!
Finally...ONCE the Medium HAS brought though evidence that you DO understand and CAN accept, feel free to let the Medium
know! You CAN even share WHY the information is significant or meaningful if you'd like!
Thank you to bestpsychicdirectory.com page owner Bob Olson for sharing information that enabled me to share this information with you!
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